Sunday, June 13, 2010

Your girlfriends advice won´t help

I saw Sex and the City yesterday and came to think about how awful our girlfriends are at giving advice when it comes to love, dating and relationships. They don´t mean harm - and that is the problem! They want to be nice to us - and by being nice they stop us from personal growth.

If you have patterns that are not serving you, your girlfriends won´t be the ones to tell. They want to be your friend and not upset you! Instead they will say "Oh no you are wonderful, I can´t believe you are single. Just let me introduce you to some more boys!" and you go on another 5 dates without succeeding...

The best way to change your life is to change YOU. What could you do different that made your life different? It can be embarrassing and painful to look at your own part of not finding love - but when you do, you can quickly create a new reality!

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