When to have sex when the kids scream MOM

Question
I've been married almost 10 years now but I'm too young to be in a rut, how can I spice up my sex life? I'm 27 years old I have 2 kids, my husband still finds me attractive in anything that I wear... But the thing is my kids are always around (school's out and my daughter has exzema so we can't leave her with the baby sitter because she'll constantly scratch with gramma) so when he wants to have sex we can't because the kids are around somewhere. He gets up around 4.00 in the morning to get to work by 5.00 so he goes to bed before the kids sometimes, we either have to try to wake each other up in the middle of the night or just settle for quickies in the bathroom when one of us gets out of the shower. I mean it's fun and all but sometimes you actually want to dress up in something sexy and enjoy every minute of it, not trying to hurry up before someone screams "MOM!" Keep in mind that we haven't went on an actual date in like 2 years (that's when my daughter was starting to get really bad). I know we need to try a little harder but it seems like we're just stuck.... any advice? ............. P.S. exzema is when you have really bad, dry, (rough at times) red, flaky skin and when mixed with allergy's it's a real *****!!! you constantly itch and scratch then you end up cutting yourself with your finger nails and bleeding then scabbing then your scabs itch and it's just a never ending process that calls for soaks in the bath tub, applying lotion constantly and steriod medication, along with daily childrens allergy medicine...

My Answer:
Dear, This is a hard situation, it's not as easy as to say "just do it"... I actually don't know how to hep you, but I have a few challenges... :) One great thing is that you and your husband seem to be in love with each other and you want to have sex. That's a good start!!! I feel that you are stuck though and need to get your creativity going. You focus on the problems at this point and I want you to change your perspective.

1. If you HAD to come up with a solution, what would it be?
2. Can you brainstorm 10 micro changes that you can do?
3. Can you make the recent situation a bit more interesting...? You say your husband think you're sexy in whatever you wear. But do you feel the same? What makes YOU feel sexy? Buy some lingerie or try some poses :)

I know this may sound too easy and you sigh and say "oh, I have tried" but I say: try again. You never know when the insight will come and when you are open for the answers they will find their way.

My videos on how to improve your sex life: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zhQuq0UfiBQhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sGaU74XAX...

I would also like you to see this one, since I think it might be the core of your problem: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmp4oVbqQRYGood luck my dear, let me know how it goes :)

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