Watch out singles! The dating industry wants your money but do they really care about you?For people who are happy, strong and confident, finding love is easy - anywhere. They are ready and open for the energies and they attract. But most singles are not ready yet, and many times they have no clue on why they are singles or can't make a relationship work. Maybe they are scared of getting hurt, too shy, don't see themselves as valuable or just offer the wrong things. For them it's just a blurr.
It is comfortable and easy to say: "I just haven't found the right one yet" but that is just an excuse. If it's all about the other person you can run away from the responsibility. It's not your fault...
When a client comes to me I help them discover their true weaknesses - so they can truly heal. What are they afraid of? What emotional bags do they need to drop to make their balloon lift? If they have blocks stopping them from living fully they can go on 100 online dates and still not find love. The blocks are still there.
And the worst thing is that a person who feels bad about the Self can feel even worse after a period of online dating. When getting rejected over and over, as happens on the Internet where we don't have the graceful manners as in real life but can say or do whatever, singles get even heavier, sader and further from love.
The online dating industry is not really helping these people. Maybe they make more money if singles stay single and keep paying...? It makes me sad.
1 comments:
This post was very insightful. It's a very interesting reasoning to think that online dating services only makes single people more single than before. Everything is business I guess
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