This breaks my heart

There is this Aussie dating columnist who try to help people in their dating life. In her last newsletter she writes like this:

After years of writing my dating column, I've fast discovered that there are a bunch of books out there that people have often told me changed their lives. Lately, that pool of books seems to include Timothy Ferriss's Four Hour Work Week, Oprah favouriteThe Power Of Now by Eckart Tolle and anything by Malcolm Gladwell. However, it seems that when it comes to dating, the classics are still the ones being referred to and revered the most. Herein lies the top four I've recently heard being quoted, repeated and cherished by Ask Sam readers ...

Sex Etiquette by Em and Lo
The Rules by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider
Why Men Love Bitches by Sherry Argov
The Game by Neil Strauss

Gee, this really breaks my heart. These books are the worst litterature you can ever take in if you want a great loving relationship. I get so sad when this is the advice given. I get so sad. It's like giving drugs to someone who needs a hug.