Cheating or not?

Question
How did you find out your partner was having an affair? and what did you do about it?

My Answer
Briza, This is a hard question to answer since you are not telling me much about the situation...

I am sorry you have these feelings though, being worried about stuff like this is painful! No matter if your partner is cheating or not, you are spending lots of energy on thinking. Not good!!!
What makes you think she is having an affair?
Could there be other explanations for her acting "funny"?
Can you ask her?

If the relationship is unhappy we usually know, and the thing is not how to make her stop cheating, but how to make the love grow. If you just want her to be faithful you are just being "ok". I want you to be "happy".

What can you do to improve the relationship? Anything? Can you ask what would make her happy? So you know what would make you happy.

Well, the advice I give is just a lot of questions, but that is because the answer, the truth, is within you!! You know...

Another woman had answered this question and her answer went like this:

"The stupid dumb strawberry blonde prostitute sent him a kiss to his mobile phone and guess who got to his phone first?, me. Then I checked the past phone bills and sure enough there was this number he had been calling over and over again. So I now have the phone bills photo copied and put away in a safe place if they are required. At first I texted her back and said "kiss kiss to you too sweety" then put from Martins wife. This let her know that I knew and he was in deep **** because of her."

Shock. Oh, so much pain there is in the world!!! This woman lives in anger which is destructive and stealing her life.